Today is the Best Day that You Will (N)Ever Have
The Invisible Cinema: Framing Today as an Oscar Winner
Good memories are like tiny little movies in my brain. These celluloid flashes offer a glimpse into the feel-good moments of my past. I often replay them, albeit unintentionally, and they grant me a sense of settledness, a quiet assurance that all is well in my world.
On the other hand, the playlist of my mind also features some darker films—memories that, for some reason, seem to have a stickier hold on the present moment.
Most of us are hardly aware of this invisible cinema constantly scrolling through our subconscious, like an unseen director influencing our mood, shaping our thoughts, and even dictating our actions. The reel keeps turning, sometimes elevating us and at times dragging us down. It's high time we become conscious producers of this mental film realizing that the movies we watch in our head aren't really movies, they are like plays where we can give the actors new directions on how to to act out the scene.
Know What Is Happening
Awareness is the first step in mastering any skill, and emotional well-being is no exception. The movies that play in our heads don't merely exist in a vacuum; they have a tangible impact on our daily lives. It's essential to take stock and recognize these subtle influences. Are you feeling low without a clear reason? Perhaps your subconscious is replaying an unsettling memory. Recognizing this pattern is half the battle won. It empowers you to take back control and change the narrative.
Think About Now
Once aware, the next imperative is to center yourself in the present moment. Ah, the elusive "now"—a theater where the past is a closed curtain, and the future is merely an upcoming act. Mindfulness techniques, such as deep breathing, can be incredibly effective here. As you inhale and exhale, consider each breath as a new frame in your ongoing movie, one that you have the power to edit or enhance. The present moment is not merely a playback of past events; it's a live recording studio where you can create new, empowering memories.
Act as if Today is the Best Day Ever
Acting in alignment with today being the best day of your life is like editing your life's movie in real time.
You have the freedom to add special effects of joy, gratitude, or any emotion that uplifts you. You can cut out scenes that no longer serve your storyline. Strategies like positive affirmations and intentional acts of kindness can serve as your editing tools, allowing you to craft today into a masterpiece. After all, every epic movie was once a series of individual frames, each contributing to the final spectacle.
Let's Give Today a Chance
In the grand tapestry of life's film, each day is but a single frame. Yet, within it lies the potential for greatness. Your awareness, focus on the present, and positive actions could transform today into a highlight reel of your life's cinema or make it an Oscar winner. So why not give today the chance to be not just another frame, but a pivotal scene in your personal epic? Make a promise to yourself to live this day fully; act purposefully in your mind and your actions. After all, every great script needs its moment of brilliance.
Let's give today a chance to be yours.
Today, in a cohort of brothers seeking to find the freedom from the hidden cinema, I was able to share this essay, and the mindset I had come to know, embrace, and live during this season. It was a good reminder of the growth, the promise of life, and the internal nature of the root of our identity.
Love how this came out. B.e.a.utiful brother!